Virtual talk dirty
Other potential topics of dirty talk include telling your partner how attracted to him you are, explaining what you want to do to him, or sharing what you’d like him to do to you.
You can also of course share status updates like, "I’m close" or "I’m coming." Keep it simple at first. If there are certain things you feel uncomfortable saying, you and your partner can create your own code words. For example, most women hate the phrase "eat me out," but you could say "I want your tongue down there" or "I want you to do that thing I like."It's OK to be turned on by words like "slut" and "whore" that would offend you outside the bedroom.
”I know I’ve been keeping the focus on being authentic, but it’s also OK to play up a different aspect of your personality with your sex talk.
Maybe you’re rather shy in your everyday life, but you want to experiment with being dominant and bossy in the bedroom.
Q: My boyfriend and I have pretty good sex, if I do say so myself.What dirty talk doesn’t immediately make you burst into laughter or cringe in embarrassment? If you find things that feel uncomfortable, practice saying them a few times before declaring them not your style.