Tips for men dating single moms
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For single moms who are juggling dating with a job and kids, free time is precious, and while she will want to spend many of her nights off with you, she’ll likely want some ‘me time’ too. You’ll soon learn the importance of flexibility – and the difficulty of spontaneity.
If you date women, then, dating a single mom is a very real possibility, especially if you date women in their 30s, 40s, or 50s.
As writer Jennifer Ball says “We bring home the bacon, we fry it up in the pan, we clean the pan...hell, we bought the pan.'' If you’re looking for a delicate princess who wants you to wait on her every whim, keep right on walking.
But if you want a practical, can-do partner who can take on what comes her way, a single mom is a great bet. Her history has taught her what it takes to be a good partner They say there’s no better teacher than experience, and that’s especially true when something doesn’t work out.
Don’t try to outdo them or replace them and, most of all, try not to feel jealous if she spends time with them. When it's early days, it’s vital that you be her partner first and a potential parent to her kids a very distant second.
You may not even get to meet them until she’s sure of you, and you need to be ok with that. Her introducing you and her kids is a true sign she’s smitten.
Life has taught them they cannot give nor expect perfection, and as a result, they're able to focus on the real rhythms of healthy love.3.