Dating cantonese women
So, if you're dating a Chinese guy, make sure to figure out what the both of you want out of the relationship so you can manage expectations.
So much so, that my husband didn't ask to date me, he asked me to be with him for the rest of his life. Compared to most of their Western counterparts, Chinese men start thinking about marriage much earlier in the relationship.Compared to the way my husband grew up in post-Cultural Revolution China, the modest home I grew up in is a mansion.He always paid on dates, but when he had the opportunity to get his research published in some professional journals and couldn't afford the fee, he was very hesitant to accept the money from me.Although Hollywood's portrayal of us American women is taken by Chinese to mean that we're all "open minded" (meaning you have a list of past relationships that numbers in the double digits or are open to one-night stands) the guys worth pursing a relationship with will respect your boundaries if you're clear and upfront with them.
One of the first things I noticed about the younger guys in China are that they almost always carry their girlfriend's purse.With filial piety being taught in school from first-grade on, I've found that Chinese adults take their parents' word very seriously.