Dating book by steve harvey
Because holding on to that baggage can be paralyzing; it can cripple you and keep you from performing in your next encounter.
That’s right, I said it—it’s not gonna happen, no way, no how.And you, in the meantime, win the ultimate prize of maintaing your dignity and self-esteem, and earning the respect of the man who recognized that you were worth the wait.” ― “But remember what drives a man; real men do what they have to do to make sure their people are taken care of, clothed, housed, and reasonably sastisfied, and if they're doing anything less than that, they're not men.” ― “Your objective is to avoid being on a string.The first step, I think, is to get over the fear of losing a man by confronting him. The most successful people in this world recognize that taking chances to get what they want is much more productive than sitting around being too scared to take a shot.This, I think, is a great analogy for how men seek out women.” ― “Now, revealing that you're a keeper is no guarantee that this guy won't just walk away.
Some men really are just sport fishing and have no intention of doing anything more than throwing back the women they bed.
Tell him straight up: "I need you here to protect and provide for us, to give us security in our lives, to help raise these children, to set an example for this boy, who needs to see what real men do, and for this girl, who needs to know what a real man is so she can find one of her own someday.