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If you’re an older woman getting back in the dating game, it can be daunting to decide if someone is the right age for you.
And more often than not, the question is, “Is he too young for me?
— As a dating coach for single women over 40, one of the first questions I ask a client is, “What’s your biggest problem in dating? I recently asked a group of about 300 single, divorced, and widowed women over 40 what their biggest problems were in dating. They want to be appreciated for more than their bodies.
” I want to know what they’ve tried and what their struggles are. I wanted to see how many struggled with the same issues. So guys, please pay attention to more than the boobs and the butt. Those things are far more important than a Harvard or Yale degree, or whether or not he speaks Mandarin.
Their answers help me tailor a program that helps them attract their ideal match. But when a man rushes sex, women often feel objectified.
Are they unknowingly putting up guards that turn men off?
She supports herself and is very in touch with her needs.
Some younger men feel like they can learn from her and that she has enough life experience for both of them.
Ask him for help around the house, put him in charge of travel, let him cook you a special meal, and be comfortable in sharing your vulnerabilities with him.
December-May is always going to be looked at in a different light than May-December; so unless you can ignore others’ opinions about your relationship with a younger man, you’ll be out of luck.
If you’re a woman who has insecurity about aging (Okay, who doesn’t?
Older women tend to exude a more “together” vibe, seeming to be more in tune with her needs (physical or otherwise), which makes her very attractive to younger men.
The problem, however, can be that an older woman is simply a challenge for the younger man.It’s important he be on the same page as you in terms of making a long-term commitment, having a family, and career goals.