Dating an insecure girl
[Read: 18 signs you may be having an emotional affair without realizing it] #5 When you don’t introduce her to friends. It will make her feel isolated and unwanted, and she’ll likely ask herself endlessly if she’s not special enough to be introduced to your buddies. You invite her to go with you to your friend’s party. Do you really have to be side-by-side like Siamese Twins?
You’re having brunch at a restaurant and suddenly, your childhood friends enter the scene. Not if she has other friends in the room or if she has the bubbliest personality.
She is bound to lose interest in sharing her thoughts with you because you’re obviously not interested in them.
If you often give this kind of feeling to her, she’ll likely feel “less than” because you’re indirectly telling her that she’s boring. She’s not asking you to reply a minute after she sends a text message.
Be with her as she rides her insecurities, but make sure you’re not contributing to them.
A stigma placed on insecure people implies we are undateable.
By the end of your conversation, your girlfriend should feel that she’s the only one you want now. If you continue keeping secrets, it will become a habit for you and she’ll start to feel less-than-adequate. There is nothing more effective in making a girl feel insecure all her life than by cheating on her. Do not hate her for being insecure, because you played a big role in making her feel that way.
She’ll feel so worthless it’ll ruin her self-esteem for long time to come. If she agreed to stay with you even after you got caught, make sure you never commit the same offense again.
Sometimes, it’s really your rudeness that makes her insecure. But let’s not forget that you had sex with your ex a lot of times in the past.
Sometimes, you wonder if it’s really them and not you.