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Women who date female officers have trouble with this too.This causes relational boundary issues that, especially when couples are dating and still getting to know one another, create tension when the partner isn't comfortable with the woman being an officer.As police officers, we deal with people in tense situations every day and take it in stride.Then why is it such a challenge for us when it comes to our dating lives?I can uniquely identify with the black experience because of my own numerous experiences of being pulled over for no other apparent reason except for being in the wrong neighborhood, wrong state and for the hue of my skin. The most personal tense police encounter that I can remember was when I was coming from a business meeting in Philadelphia, attempting to set up a senior program for refugees. I was pulled out of my car and interrogated in the officer’s vehicle. Some of my coworkers have been injured in the line of duty after unfortunate patient interactions.I was driving back to my office when I was pulled over by six police cars and S. When I recall these events to family and friends they chuckle in disbelief because I am a nurse. In many ways police and nurses are on the same team.As the president and the nation as a whole grasp for answers or solutions to the growing divide between law enforcement and communities of color, I can’t help but see the lack of conversation or attention being placed in area of emergency medical training for our officers or the lack of medical care delivered after excessive force has been applied.
They feel that if they were men, they would be considered heroes for their chosen occupation, but as women they are just doing something to upset their partner. For me personally, I was a divorced mom when I became an officer. It felt like men were looking for a challenge or they wanted to be able to put an "X" in the box on their bucket list that reads, "Dated a Cop." Some of our challenges are obvious—we can't date criminals or our bosses, and sometimes these seem to be the only people around.
Also, traditionally it has been acceptable for younger women to date men who are considerably older; and by considerably I mean about 10 years older.
This means a woman in her Twenties has a wide selection of men to choose from for dating, but as she ages—regardless of her occupation—the pool of available men drops off sharply.
Always put your safety first, even when you are really lonely. This could be because females have been utilized in law enforcement investigations since at least 1912.
If you wouldn't want your best friend to do it, you shouldn't either. Being a female in law enforcement has its challenges.There's a pattern across police departments in this country where the physical ability hiring standard is higher than the physical ability post-hiring standard.