Ambivalent men dating
I’m frustrated because when I go out men make me feel extremely uncomfortable by constantly commenting on the way I look and men online get into sex very quickly.
A lot of people don’t understand why I’ve turned to online dating since I’ve been told I’m a catch and don’t seem like I would have trouble meeting people.
If there was one thing I wish I could tell my marriage-minded friends who repeatedly deal with ambivalent men, it would be this: “Stop being ridiculous and ‘settle’ for the guy who likes you.” I would tell them that because I wish someone would have told me that years ago when I met the guy who I now deem as my personal disaster. Charming and extraordinarily good looking, he possessed an exuberant amount of swag before anyone even used the word “swag”.
As a result, my friends and I nicknamed him “Masterpiece”.
Or that the guy who disappears for a week is secretly in love with you. Is it not clear that in waiting for a man who needs a once-a-week partner to change his mind, you could lose years of your life?
Any man a woman has to work to get, she will certainly have to work to keep. I knew that I needed to get rid of the notion that a guy liking me wasn’t that important, because in fact, it is of the utmost importance.I had to tell myself that there is nothing endearing about a man who couldn’t care less about me. Plenty of men who were interested in me fit my superficial descriptions, but I observed that when I was dealing with men who interested, it added to their allure.